In terms of relationship bombs, confessing to your spouse about a secret relationship is one of the biggest. Unless you …
The spring of 2009 was surreal. In the midst of a high risk pregnancy and a less-than blissful honeymoon of a marriage, I was at war. I was at war with family, friends, and enemies. I deemed my husband, his mistress, and anyone who knew about his affair as the enemy. I prayed even though…
Thomas and Jonni stopped when they entered the cafeteria. Jonni surveyed the room to see if she recognized anyone. Only one woman caught her attention, but she ignored her. Darnell’s ex-girlfriend was probably here just getting a prenatal checkup. Jonni sighed and turned around. “He’s not in here so I’m going to head to the…
I began this as a joke and told a friend of mine I’d prefer guys and gals be on the same page when it comes to cheating. There are too many sloppy cheaters out there, and majority of them are guys. My friend wasn’t happy at first because she said I was giving the secrets…
June 20, 2012 To The Other Woman, You probably think all my venting posts are in reference to you. You may even assume I live my every waking moment to find out what YOU are doing. In fact, it is quite the opposite. My comments used to be about you years ago, but not anymore.…
Communication is key factor in any relationship. Understand the message and in turn make sure you’re sending a clear message yourself. I’m reminded of an argument with my spouse that should have gone in a totally different direction than it did all because he misunderstood my message. From that one misinterpretation, it skyrocketed into a…
Him: She is a good woman, but she doesn’t forget anything I’ve done wrong. Pastor: What did you do wrong? Him: I had an affair, and now she’s not with me at all. Pastor: That explains why she hasn’t forgotten anything. A woman won’t ever forget, but it is her choice to forgive you. Her:…
Infidelity Question for the Week of 05/07/2012 “If my husband continues calling his [former] mistress, is it considered infidelity?” This question was asked by one of our visitors. The response, offered by an author who writes about relationships, follows. This is not necessarily the position taken by the owner(s) of this site. Answer: The simple…
Jonni started walking back toward the booth where she and Toni were seated. Charles grabbed her by the waist, pulled her to the side of the bar where no one could see them, and slowly kissed the nape of her neck. Her spot. She only had three and this was the man who discovered that…
What are your thoughts on a man or woman leaving their current relationship to begin another? You may think that it is a cowardly way to deal with real life issues that are in your present relationship. But for the most part, your mate believes the “grass is greener on the other side” if they…