If you are a strong-willed, independent woman relinquishing control to someone can be very difficult. It’s not something that you WANT to do, but it is something that you NEED to do if you are married or are planning to get married. Why? Two words: divine order. Ladies, our husbands were put in a position…
Healthy heart, healthy mind, healthy friends, healthy family, healthy lifestyle… is not just a myth. Don’t allow anyone to make you feel as if you have no choice but to put up with their irrational behavior, their infidelity, or their selfishness. Letting go of your past and any unhealthy person from your past doesn’t mean…
A Six-Step Approach to Saving Your Marriage If you have been asking yourself "how can I save my marriage" then you need to pay attention to the principles described here. Of course there is some confusion about your current situation. Naturally, this may cause you to react negatively. Avoid this temptation. To answer the question…
How do you compete with a mother-in-law, stepdaughter, ex-girlfriend whose the mother of your spouse’s child, and other women who are also interested in your mate? When it comes to his child, you are in a difficult position because that child is now your concern as well. The well-being of the child is the most…
Before you decide to cheat on your spouse or boyfriend, and before you decide to lay down with a woman who belongs to someone else… It is not too late to spice up your current relationship. Unless the relationship is emotionally, physically, and mentally abusive…there may be hope in saving that once passionate relationship. The…
Couples Therapy Counseling Can Help Remove Insecurities A “happy couple” is a rarity these days. There are many instances in which a relationship ends within just a few months. Even worse. are those factors at the root of the problems which cause relationships to fail. Also, the pettiest issue can result in huge battles that…
“It takes two to make a thing go right” are infamous words from a rap song from the late 1980s by Rob Base and DJ Easy Rock. Notice how even the simplest of expressions can mean so much in a relationship or marriage. It does require two people working together to ensure that the marriage…
Coping with jealousy requires a good understanding of how jealousy affects modern monogamous relationships. Jealousy is a secondary emotion that derives from the negative thoughts and feelings of fear, insecurity and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something that a person values, particularly that of a human connection. It’s a very familiar experience in human…
You never really know how you will deal with a situation until faced with it head on. From the outside looking in at a friend or family member’s relationship, you can easily say what you will or will not do and what you will and won’t put up with. I’ve done it, and I’m sure…
“Dear Lord, can you please ask my wife to cook for me today, I’m hungry.” “And Dear Lord,” she interjected. “Can you tell my husband to get out of bed and help do chores so I’m not too tired to cook?” Is it too commonplace to ask for and receive help from your mate, not…