In terms of relationship bombs, confessing to your spouse about a secret relationship is one of the biggest. Unless you …
It is a fact that men will always find some women attractive, regardless of their marital status. Married men, on the other hand, are expected to stop flirting or lusting for other women. They also must do their best to keep their interactions with women…
Own up to your mistakes. Own up to the bad choices that you’ve made. Own up to the selfish need to be right. Own up to the fear of being alone. Own up to the fear of rejection. Own up to the fact that you love him, but he doesn’t love you. Own up to…
I asked this question in a therapy session, but didn’t get the answer I wanted. I asked friends and family, but they advised “enough” had been the first red flag during the dating process. Truth is, no one can truly tell you when enough is enough. Only you know your limits and when that final…
Dilemma: Waiting is a gift. It takes a special person to wait, especially one who has patience wrapped in a plastic bag of perseverance. We’re in a microwave popcorn society. Everything has to be right now, quick, fast, and in a hurry. Even our high-speed internet is considered slow if it doesn’t navigate to the…
As a mother of three boys and two girls, I try to be fair in discipline and love. Boys will test the waters, and I find myself almost screaming at the top of my lungs to get them to stop jumping off the kitchen table or to stay out of the street. My girls are…
Him: She is a good woman, but she doesn’t forget anything I’ve done wrong. Pastor: What did you do wrong? Him: I had an affair, and now she’s not with me at all. Pastor: That explains why she hasn’t forgotten anything. A woman won’t ever forget, but it is her choice to forgive you. Her:…
A lover of mine broke my heart. He used to be my best friend. I cared for him deeply. Inseparable til the end. One touch from him eased my soul. One kiss my heart skipped beats. One moment and time would freeze. In bed with another between silk sheets. I don’t want to be anything…
There’s no experience necessary to be a mom. The pay is minimal and the workload is strenuous. There is heavy lifting involved. Your heart may hurt. Your back and feet will be sore. You will meet a few gray hairs that like to stand out to prove their existence. There are no off days. You…
The grass is greener on the other side. Have you ever heard that cliche? Well, it isn’t necessarily true. Believe it or not, the grass is greener where you water it. Think about it… I’ve got a neighbor whose mowed his lawn less than ten times in the four years we’ve lived in our home.…