Cheating is tough to deal with as is, and there are consequences for that act of infidelity. Those consequences can be anything from financial bankruptcy to divorce. What happens when the result of sleeping with the other woman causes a more painful consequence? What do you do when a child is the result of an…
Conversing with a group of online friends, an interesting topic came up regarding women pleasing their mate. The subject was somewhat offensive to me at first, but then the comment was broken down by other men who understood. We were discussing how a woman should please a man to keep him further intrigued so that…
It’s the final seconds of the game. Bases are loaded and Derek Jeter is up to bat. You are hoping for a grand slam. You’re on the edge of your seat, fingers crossed and screaming at the top of your lungs to bring it home. Or perhaps there’s the snap of the ball to the…
There’s nothing more frustrating in a marriage or relationship than when you are competing for attention from your significant other with outside forces. Ladies, are you competing for his love and affection with that of another woman? Perhaps his mother or his mistress seems to have a significant hold on him that you cannot break loose. …
Take a moment to reflect on the pain your significant other caused by cheating on you. Ladies it hurts emotionally to a point where your physical and mental health may be at risk. Gentleman, you never thought your ‘boo’ would do that to you, so right now you are devastated and looking for a solution…
Cheating may begin to tear your relationship apart, and abuse can end it. Cheating and abuse may intertwine, especially when your spouse/mate is trying to cover their tracks or justify their actions. When the violence gets worse, the cheating aspect somehow becomes irrelevant. I read an article from Live Science website (www.livescience.com) on “Why Women…
James 1:19 “…Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry…” Have you said something in anger that you regret saying the moment it came out? It’s okay if you have because you are not alone. Acting in haste or anger can be a self-defense mechanism when you are offended,…
What happens to your relationship when you decide to withhold the truth, deceive your mate, or outright lie to them about your affair? Most likely, there is nothing pleasant about that situation when the dishonesty continues to a point where your mate no longer trusts the words you speak. My spouse, years ago, could not…
Whom Will Your Religion (or Lack Thereof) Let You Date? : Interfaith Relationships and When They Can Work Many people want someone to share their faith with them in a relationship. It’s part of the process for them to have someone that understands how they tick in terms of how they see what’s beyond this…
Have you been so busy lately that you’ve forgotten things that you put on your to-do list? School, kids, work, house work, homework are all intertwined responsibilities that you and your companion are focused on to run the household. Then you try to add in quality time such as NBA playoffs, internet surfing, and children’s…