Category: Break Ups


  • Most marriages cannot survive an affair. Divorce, abuse, resentment, and other negative consequences are the aftermath of divorce. What do you think? Is it possible to trust your mate after an affair and start over? I think it is possible to heal and if both parties are willing to make the marriage work, it is…

  • A lover of mine broke my heart. He used to be my best friend. I cared for him deeply. Inseparable til the end. One touch from him eased my soul. One kiss my heart skipped beats. One moment and time would freeze. In bed with another between silk sheets. I don’t want to be anything…

  • …and faith unlocks the door. Did your spouse make you angry in some way? Did he/she cheat on you? Perhaps things are going great, and you don’t think prayer is necessary because there’s nothing wrong in your relationship right now. Your spouse hasn’t been to do anything unforgivable or unspeakable yet. Besides, isn’t prayer for…

  • I don’t know about you, but I hate listening to people who have unsuccessful or those who are single provide advice on how to behave in a or how to make things better. How can I listen to you about what to do, when obviously the advice didn’t work for you? Why am I doing…

  • We’ve agreed that for whatever reason, cheating is wrong on so many different levels. Yet cheaters cheat because they can, they want to, or because we may have driven them to that point with our own attitudes. Rest assured that the reasons that your mate cheats is not always your fault. So remember not to…

  • What are your thoughts on a man or woman leaving their current relationship to begin another? You may think that it is a cowardly way to deal with real life issues that are in your present relationship. But for the most part, your mate believes the “grass is greener on the other side” if they…

  • Heartbreak is a pain like any other. It is an emotional pain so bottomless that it can feel like a physical blow. When you have a pain like this one, all you want is for the deep ache to go away. I wish I could tell you otherwise, but the truth is there is no…

  • If you are a strong-willed, independent woman relinquishing control to someone can be very difficult. It’s not something that you WANT to do, but it is something that you NEED to do if you are married or are planning to get married. Why? Two words: divine order. Ladies, our husbands were put in a position…

  • Have no fear ladies, chivalry still exists. There are still men who tell their wives to just wake up and they’ll do the rest. George Bailey’s still “lasso the moon” for their wives. Not every relationship ends in divorce. Wives do actually have a fighting chance of being number one in their spouses’s life and…