Category: Counseling


  • Take a moment to reflect on the pain your significant other caused by cheating on you.  Ladies it hurts emotionally to a point where your physical and mental health may be at risk.  Gentleman, you never thought your ‘boo’ would do that to you, so right now you are devastated and looking for a solution…

  • Cheating may begin to tear your relationship apart, and abuse can end it. Cheating and abuse may intertwine, especially when your spouse/mate is trying to cover their tracks or justify their actions. When the violence gets worse, the cheating aspect somehow becomes irrelevant. I read an article from Live Science website (www.livescience.com) on “Why Women…

  • James 1:19 “…Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry…” Have you said something in anger that you regret saying the moment it came out?  It’s okay if you have because you are not alone.  Acting in haste or anger can be a self-defense mechanism when you are offended,…

  • What happens to your relationship when you decide to withhold the truth, deceive your mate, or outright lie to them about your affair? Most likely, there is nothing pleasant about that situation when the dishonesty continues to a point where your mate no longer trusts the words you speak. My spouse, years ago, could not…

  • Have you been so busy lately that you’ve forgotten things that you put on your to-do list?  School, kids, work, house work, homework are all intertwined responsibilities that you and your companion are focused on to run the household.  Then you try to add in quality time such as NBA playoffs, internet surfing, and children’s…

  • John stayed on his cell phone constantly while Shirley looked on in amazement.  She could have sworn she was discussing their finances as it was important to avoid soon foreclosure on their dream home.  After finding out about his plans to be with the other woman permanently, and having him trudge in and out of…

  • When a woman argues with a man, it only makes him dig in and stand his ground. After all, men are innately competitive. It’s in their genes, and they are born to compete. That’s why, in any argument, he feels he must be the victor. So, even if you have a valid point, arguing with…

  • STOP!  Have you arranged a secret meeting with an old fling or a new affair to get back at your husband or boyfriend for cheating on you?  Before you book your flight, confirm hotel reservations, or pay for that rental car, think about what you are about to do.  This decision could affect you for…

  • Life can become so monotonous and overwhelming for married couples.  You may feel that you two are just going through the motions.  You pass each other in the bathroom or kitchen getting ready for work or school and grabbing a bite to eat.  You’ve accepted the fact that you two live separate lives, perhaps.  Even…

  • You and your significant other have come a long way emotionally, and he finally proposed! The moment you’ve been waiting for and planning since you were a child having tea parties in your bedroom with your teddy bears, trying to decide who would be Mr. Right, has finally come. You’ve gone against the advice of…